You Can Create the Life You Want

Life is about decisions. Every day we make millions of decisions: when to get up, what to wear, how to respond to our spouse, whether to answer the phone, look at email, and so on. Many of the decisions we make, we make on autopilot. Autopilot is a good thing because then we don’t have to make so many decisions. Right? Wrong. The thing about autopilot is that it won’t let you change. The only way you can create the life you want if but you have to change and that’s the rub. Your Brain Your brain has two modes: autopilot (habits) and decision making. Two different parts of your brain control these two modes. Habit-making behaviors, emotions, memories, and pattern recognition are linked to the basal ganglia. The prefrontal cortex controls decision making. This part of the brain works to learn new things. The other thing your brain does is to help you survive. It regulates your body functioning and it is geared to protect you no matter what. Your brain (the basal ganglia) recognizes a danger before you consciously register the danger. That’s what it’s supposed to do so you can survive. There are real dangers like getting […]